Matchmaking can be complicated for men and this page offers you insights on the
things that women hate when it comes to dating men. We direct you on creating
better relationships with women and show you how to avoid certain behaviour
that women despise.
You can't always be perfect and that is understandable. But as a man, there are some things that you should absolutely avoid. Learn to avoid that what men do and women hate.
Be Friends
Women hate the fact that when it comes to friendship, men cannot just be friends with a women. If they have a female friend they always would rather have it sexual as where a lady doesn't see it that way. Try and be only friends with a lady. This will increase your understanding of the way women think and operate, and will also make you a lot more comfortable around women.
Listen
A huge mistake that men make when hitting on a woman is just not listening. Why is it that men ask questions and not really listen to the answers? You might as well as questions about things that interest you.
First Impressions
Men who say the wrong thing when making an approach is the worst matchmaking mistake a man could make. First impressions are so important. Some men just say the dumbest things. Things like pick up lines or vulgar comments are never a good matchmaking idea.
Don't Talk About Money
Your job or paycheck is not a good first move either. Never start with how much you make or what you do unless you are expecting to find a girl who will like you only for that. Then men say women are all money hungry.
Sex
Women hate being hit on a guy that turns out to only want sex. Even if this is your whole matchmaking plan, you will have to play your cards right if you want it to work or else you will just come out looking like a jerk.
Keep your Eyes On Her
Don't look at other girls if you are making moves on one women. It's just inappropriate and a total turn off.
Don't Try and Get her Drink
It's so obvious if you try to get a girl drunk as a matchmaking technique. Girls really hate guys who do that. You can buy a girl one drink not five.
Learn to Take a Hint
Learn how to take a hint when it is given. If your approach is not working, don't be pushy. The more you push the more desperate you look and the less chances you have. Learn to read a woman's response.